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Techniques: How to Give a Blow Job



Blowjobs don't necessarily have to be about pleasure for just the guy. Many women say the feeling of control it gives them combined with the oral stimulation is a turn-on in its own right. And the more it turns her on, the more exciting it is for him. To begin, position yourself comfortably and begin to tease his penis by kissing it, breathing lightly, tickling lightly. Then create a vacuum by pursing your lips, surrounding his penis and sucking. Thrust your mouth down over his penis while you suck. If for some reason you are unable to fully accept a penis in your mouth, you can “fake” the acceptation by using your mouth on the tip of the penis and using your hand along the rest. Twist your hands as you stroke his penis.

Licking the bottom side of the penis, close to his balls, with just the tip of your tongue is highly effective. Flicking that area with the tongue is highly stimulating for him.

Some other tips:

  • To relax your throat muscles, take a deep breath before you take his penis into your mouth
  • You can control how deep he goes into your mouth by using your hand around the base of his penis
  • Use a finger in your partner's anus to massage his prostate
  • Put an ice cube in your mouth or a mint for extra stimulation
  • As your mouth moves on his shaft, run your hands over his inner thighs
  • Keep your teeth away from his penis
  • Not all men come during oral sex. Don't worry if he doesn't - it is not a reflection of your technique. Ask him if he finds it pleasurable.
  • Some men like a woman to continue for a minute or so after they have come and some men find their penis too sensitive at that point - you have to ask your partner to know which they are.


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