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Subject: High Sex Drive



QUESTION:

My sex drive is high. My boyfriend's is low. His has always been low, might always be. Mine however has sky rocketed. Is there anything I can do? Solo isn't cutting it, and I do not want to force him to have sex.

REPLY:

Mismatched sex drive is a common problem on which many relationships founder and sink. As usual, communication is the best way to deal with it. Tell him how you are feeling, and listen to his feelings, too. Often, improved communication allows a couple to reconnect, and sex drive improves. That applies to any relationship. Ultimately, he may never have the same drive that you have, and you will just have to deal with that on your own, but try talking about it first. Also, compromise on both sides of the equation - he making a little more effort than his own motivation allows and you being okay with a little less is a common solution to the problem.

- KT

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