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Subject: Uncircumcised PenisQUESTION: Me and my finance haven't had sex in about 5-6 months and in the past we may have had sex 1 or 2 times a month. I have NO sex drive and his is pretty low as well. There has been a couple of things in the past that has turned me off from him such as one time I gave him a blow job it smelled so bad. Total turn off! His penis dosen't feel smooth like other men I've been with when I gave them a blow job. I always loved giving head but never with him. Also, he is not circumcised, his penis is really small compared to others I've been with and I just cannot get turned on. He is the first man I've been with that wasn't circumcised. It actually grosses me out looking at his penis. I feel so bad and I don't know how to talk to him about it, but our relationship is going to fall apart. I want to enjoy being with him sexually and we have been together for 3 years now and I do not want to be with him sexually! We cannot continue going on like this. Please help. REPLY: This requires a conversation and some decision on if this is the appropriate relationship for a marriage. My first thought is a relationship can not fall apart because of a penis. It falls apart because of other things. Lack of communication, lack of intimacy, trust. Not a penis. My second thought would be if it really smells bad, it could be a hygiene issue on his part. Uncircumcised penises do require more cleaning. If his hygiene is actually good and you are just somehow turned off or grossed out by uncircumcised penises, you need to examine your beliefs. The penis was actually designed to be uncircumcised and our culture does this weird thing to them. Your reaction to his penis being uncircumcised is your problem, not his. Anyway, I think this is more about communication than it is about his penis so I would start with a discussion. That's always the best approach. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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