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Subject: Sex On Top



QUESTION:

I am in a healthy relationship with my man and have been for a while now. The sex is great and there is a lot of it. Ever since like the second month of our relationship, my man has wanted me to get on top to ride him. I am hesitant to do so because I am not a small woman, and I am afraid that I will hurt him in some way. He isnt a small man either, but he does weigh less than me. I have tried it before in other relationships and I am very uncomfortable doing it. But lately, he talks about it so much that, I feel like it could be a bad issue with us if I don't decide at some point to agree to do it. I love him, I am just self conscious and don't want him to be disappointed with me afterwards. Do you have any suggestions as to a different way to do it where all my weight isnt on him while I'm "riding"?

REPLY:

I do indeed - the Bodybouncer. (that's the second time I got to say that today) I don't know your weight, but it supports up to 250 lbs. For a cheaper suggestion, just put a couple of pillows under each knee when you are on top. This will elevate you more and reduce the weight on him.

- KT

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